10 reasons you should come to our cock celebration

10 reasons you should come to our celebration on Saturday June, 25th – Brotherhood of Manchester (Manchester, England) – Meetup

We have space for 18 men : Celebrate the erotic power of masculinity through lingam massage and meditation. We have space for 18 men

Something I have always really wanted to try : I have asked Martin to keep the yoga part of the class really simple so that even fat men like myself can have a go at something I have always really wanted to try.

Meet the Most Amazing Men : As I have always said, there are two types of men. Men who talk and Men who do. The class is an opportunity to be in the company of other men who do. You will meet the most amazing men, you will find them inspirational.

Don’t Worry, be Happy : DON’T WORRY if you have not attended one of our celebrations before, as the more experienced members will BE HAPPY to encourage and guide you.

Don’t be Shy, Give it a Try : This male massage event is also a great session for men who are shy, as it will help them to see the possibilities and help to build up confidence in themselves.

Absolutely Clear Understanding : Many of our celebration workshops include lingam massage, but there is absolutely clear understanding not to engage in sexual acts.

All good men, gay, bisexual and str8 welcome. We create a space where every man is accepted for who he is. In this sacred space we don’t judge anyone or say or do anything that would make anyone feel in anyway uncomfortable.

Pioneering Erotic Learning 4 Men : What makes our workshops unique is that there are no long lectures as we believe that erotic learning is more effective when bypassing your conscious mind. Learn by touch.

Each person’s experience is unique. Learn how to give an amazing erotic ritualised manhood massage and meditation. Whether you want to use the skills you learn to become a professional erotic masseur or just as a way of connecting with other men on a more spiritual level, we do hope you come along, we think you would be amazing.

Last Class : Our last class before we take a few months break for our Summer Holidays. Thank you for all your support over the Year, especially to all the men who came to the classes.

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P.S Forgot to mention, Your Most Slowest, Most Softest, Most Sensual Penis Massage EVER!

Erotic mindfulness penis meditation & massage

tantric male massage manchesterthick-belly-thick-dick-8-e1443923758553Saturday, June 25, 2016, 2:00 PM. Central Manchester M1. Over a period of 4 years every man who wanted to join any of my male massage groups on meetup was invited to answer a very unusual question. Which was “how to you like to have your penis massaged”. There are been more than 5.000. replies. I have learned so much from each and every word. I have kept a list. There are 3 words that are predominantly more popular than any others. They all begin with “S”. Slow, soft and sensual. This class is a celebration of that knowledge. Loving Kindness for your penis. Erotic mindfulness penis meditation massage 4 beginners. During this Erotic Mindfulness Penis Meditation Massage class You will experience.

Turning over to awaken the kundalini
The Big Draw Backwards Technique.
Erotic Touch from a mindfulness perspective
The Loving Kindness erotic meditation undressing ritual
The Two most important shishna blessing techniques
Anal Breathe and the Belly-Button Technique
The art of erotic mindfulness massage
Your Slowest Softest Sensualest Ever Penis Massage

Erotic Mindfulness Penis Meditation Massage

Saturday, Jun 25, 2016, 2:00 PM

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Recommended further reading

Mindful Sex by Jeff Wilson

Why Meditation And Orgasm Feel The Same To The Brain


The A-Z of Hap-Penis Manchester

Saturday, May 25th, 2016, Central Manchester. Live demo of the Revised A-Z of Penis Massage. The 26 basic strokes that every man should know. Each stroke offers a different sensation. Each wakes up different tissues and stimulates different nerve endings. It doesn’t matter if you are experienced or an absolute beginner. We will start with our gentle meditation undressing ritual before we lay hands and give and receive a massage. Don’t Worry if you have not attended one of our celebrations before, as the more experienced members will help, encourage and guide you. The donation for this event is £50.

The A-Z of Hap-Penis

Saturday, May 28, 2016, 2:00 PM

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Tantric Lingam Massage 4 Everyman in Manchester

Tantric Massage 4 Everyman with Mr Cox – Saturday, March 26, 2016 @ 2:30 PM. Central Manchester, 5 minutes walk from Piccaddilly Station. Price: GBP49.00 /per person : (Concession : £33.33 for any man that has attended any of our previous workshops). Click here, to join us.

Absolutely anyone can become a successful tantric male masseur. You don’t need any qualifications or certificates. In fact some men have become successful professional tantric masseurs after doing this workshop. Learn how to give a full body tantric male massage using easy to learn techniques in this informative workshop. Click here to find out more.

During the class you will learn about :

• The Great Secret of Tantra – It’s not about copying some-one else’s tantra, it’s about creating your own. Only then is it truly authentic

• The Undressing Ritual – An opportunity to awaken your sensual touch, touch with a magickal intention.

• Spinning the Chakras. A dummy’s guide to understanding your chakra systems

• Shishna Blessings. A magnificent way to begin the lingam part of the massage

• Lingam Massage. 13 amazing techniques to take your massage to a higher level.

• Big Draw Technique – The Big Draw expands the energy created by the lingam massage throughout the entire body.

There will, as ever, be an opportunity to both, give and receive a massage. Please bring a flat sheet, a towel and some food to share. You will find us to be a friendly, relaxed group of gentle-men. This is also a great session for men who are shy, as it will help them to see the possibilities and help to build up confidence in themselves. This one day workshop will guide you to success. Click here to find out more.

Comments from men who have previously attended this workshop

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An extraordinary experience and very worthwhile. I won’t be able to make January’s event but would hope to make those beyond then. ItsNeverThatEasy

Thanks everyone, great afternoon and a nice group of guys. Well worth the 240 mile round trip. I’ll definitely be signing up for more. Carl

As a first timer, the inevitable nerves were flowing but, so too was the loving energy and sense of belonging. A very nice group of guys, all of whom brought something to share – and not just the food! Thank you for such a pleasant first evening. Looking forward to the next x Soulman

Excellent, informative, good to have hands on practice. John

“I am a qualified masseur, who had for years been unsure of which direction to go with this. He encouraged me to go forward with my ideas. I am now gradually and confidently building up a successful business”. Alan

He’s a genuine, Modern-Day Wizard. Certainly, a very powerful Man. Sometimes, you need the right spark of energy from someone to encourage you. He has enabled me to ‘take flight’. For this, I owe him a great debt of gratitude. With Sincerest, and most enormous thanks, Steve B x 06/05/2013

It was only this morning that I realised I would be able to attend. I’m so pleased I did. Great time again. When I’m so focused on the person I’m massaging I forget others are there. Liked listening to the relaxed chatter. I’ll be back. Who wouldn’t be? Duncan

Another great experience.. Thanks to Seb & Co. Will definitely be back for more/. David

“Hi seb. Just a quick line to let u know i started massaging a week ago and have had 9 clients so far. I love my work. Thank u so much for ur advice. I will keep in touch”. Jon in Devon

Seb creates a wonderfully warm atmosphere, which enables participants to relax and explore the wonderful world of tantric massage. greg

Hi Seb – since attending I have acquired a number of clients. They have all benefited from the amazing techniques I learned from you and some of them I see regularly. A married guy with a happy grin is a wonderful sight! Thanks again. -nickinsouthend

I really felt at ease and had some great massages, i really did feel some magic from those fingers in my last massage. Thanks for your encouraging words. G

House Rules

We have creating a space where every man is accepted for who he is. In this sacred space we don’t judge anyone or say or do anything that would make anyone feel in anyway uncomfortable. Everything that happens in a group is absolutely confidential to that group. You’re welcome to tell others about the class but you should not discuss anything about a particular person who attended. It is absolutely fine to have an erection, it is absolutely fine, not to have. Not only is it bad manners to touch someone without their permission, it is also illegal. Many of our celebration workshops include lingam massage, but there is absolutely clear understanding not to engage in sexual acts. Please arrive with your energy intact: do not attend under the influence of alcohol. Click here to find out more.



Comments from men who have attended our meetups

Such a pleasure to feel so uninhibited in the company of thoughtful men!

Being a shy person, I felt I came out of my shell. Altogether an afternoon of learning in a fun, welcoming and safe environment. May not be relevant but, for or the first time in years I had a full 8 hour sleep!

Thanks for organising such a nice session yesterday evening on the A to Z of Cock Massage . It was very fulfilling and I felt really energised afterwards. It was a very sensual experience for me.

What a great way to end a great weekend. It reminded me of the importance of touch and sensuality.

A wonderful intimate afternoon of superb touch, thank you to all the men that made it so. Those of you that didn’t come missed something very special!!

A great, non-threatening, supportive space for men to learn grow and discover their sexual and inner potential. Relaxing, sensual, spiritual.

Great experience, never had 4 handed massage before

Comfortable, Caring, Sensual, Touching, Feeling, Nice people, Nice Place, Nice Nite.

An excellent therapeutic & healthy approach to fitness & wellbeing. Roll on next session!!

way over expectations – great! Group of guys leaders and advisers were all specialists and participants all really nice. Like to come back soon.

Great space and facilities very near tram and bus stops. So good to see Seb back in Manchester with his Jade Dragon. All delivered a feast of food and relaxed fellowship with fabulous massage. I cant wait for next month and Seb’s A-Z of Cock Massage.

A very relaxed vibe with great encouragement and guidance. The company was first class as well.

Loved it! Thank you Seb for your words of wisdom and encouragement! I have tried to implement some of the suggestions: focusing on the breath, massaging with the eyes closed, listening to the music … and it does make for a better massage! Look forward to future events.

Truth, Goodness, Beauty – all in a respectful and safe envoronment. It is an opportunity to truly connect with yourself and others…and to demistify Tantra! Great One Seb!

The time just flew by and the the evening seemed to be over before it had even started! can’t wait to see you all again. Lots of useful stuff was demonstrated and practised; experienced, relaxed and knowlegeable instructors. A lovely group of guys to work with and practise the high-energy erotic routines. It was great to meet you guys and share with you my little knowledge. Definitely a five star experience!

Seb creates a wonderfully warm atmosphere, which enables participants to relax and explore. It was really nice and especially the brotherhood feeling I got there. The men were amazing with obvious good intentions and took exceptional care of each other. What an amazing group of men and what a fabulous energy.

Great host, great atmosphere, relaxed, informative, highly recommended. Go in with an open mind and heart and come out with new energy and friends. If anyone is reading this and still not tried then I’d say ‘what are you waiting for?’
Thanks to the all other participants for a calm but very stimulating experience. Fantastic journey.

Well what an amazing 4 hours, was a little nervous at first but soon got into it after the undressing ritual! A massive thanks to everyone. Hope to put what i’ve learnt into practice very soon

Wonderful, fantastic, pleasureable. Well worth the journey to get there. A great group of guys who were eager to learn and fulfil their potential.

Great to have “hands on” experience. An absolutely beautiful time in a safe environment with a great bunch of guys

Really glad I attended yesterday’s group, great host, in a relaxed atmosphere, lots of tips,  great guys there, great nights sleep, well worth the trip over, I want to practice more now

Great experience with great bunch of people. Very welcoming and was quite surprised how much I got into it. Frees the mind and body, not bad for a Wednesday night.

Not only is it a way of meeting like minded people and as the first two meet ups proved a way of connecting with others, sharing in their experiences and acquiring new techniques along the way. Warwick

celebrate touch hapiness and your beautiful lingam of course and thank to kindness of seb. ” benoit

A great environment to learn and practice. Loved being natrually naked with other like-minded men in a non-judgemental and non-critical atmosphere. Hands on experience in every way – the only way to learn how to give in a more fulfilling way.

On my first visit to this group I have come away wanting to learn more about not only tantric but also the people in this group. Hopefully my next meetup with the group will be equally as rewarding. kj

An extremely pleasant group of like minded guys with no pressure or hassle from anyone.

There should be more groups like this, brave enough to want to get this knowledge out to men.

Awesome, warm, safe, good energy, looking forward for the next meeting, thanks Seb.

So that they can find a connection with other gay men on a much deeper level. To share love, massage and excitement. Tantra is beauty in this shallow gay scene.

I’m happy 2 learn all pleasures so that I may return the same and more 2 all ! On there own or togther!!

Great atmosphere! Lovely guys and I’ve learnt a lot! First time after a huge trauma I could reconnect to my body and release it. Didn’t realise how quick time passed by! E

first time I have been to this type of event. What a great experience. Every thing was explained well. The other guys that came made the afternoon a memorable experience for us all.

Very relaxing. I feel very well even after 2 days. Great to meet friendly people. STEPHAN

The whole session was very satisfying. It has opened a new world for me Thanks to everyone who gave so much to make it work.

sebs warmth permeates the proceedings leaving everyone relaxed and happily interacting

Very welcoming and was quite surprised how much I got into the tantric massage. Frees the mind and body. T

Fantastic !  I experienced full body orgasm which I had only read about before. Good energy and a sexy smile from Seb. Good to share horny male energy in a different way. Keep up the good work! Looking forward to your group massage session again. Thank, You. L

The format in which one takes it in turns to be massaged by the other guys works very well. The whole room very quickly became highly tantric, due in no small part to your expert involvement. The background music was perfect, and time seemed to stand still.

Great  tantric energy  in  touch, Ability  to  rejoice  and  enjoy  the  sexuality  of  men.

Very  well  paced  no  hurry  but  led.   Only  problem  is  dealing  with  the  outer  world,   once  session  is  over.  Relaxing  and  re; insertion  into  world  is  helpful,  Safe  and  warm  venue,  great  music.

Seb’s masculine energy worked perfectly well. His ener calmness and strong eye contact raise itself the  Kundalini Shakti upwards very – very uplifting.

Very relaxed session. Pure joy with a great bunch of people. We were all smiles and full of energy at the end.

Terrific event, most enjoyable – thanks everyone!

Excellent, Great, supportive non-judgmental group

A great afternoon, a really nice bunch of men. Intimate and loads of fun.


an open letter to the male masseurs of Manchester


Hello Brothers, one sunny day, many many years ago, I went for a visit to the old Turkish Baths in Bethnal Green, in East London. This bloke I met asked me if I wanted to have a rubdown. I was just about to say, no, when I thought to myself, why not. I laid myself on a marble slab, and as soon as he put his hand on the small of my back, I felt this most amazing sense of spiritual calmness, like a spiritual plateau. It was like he was minding me. Looking after me. I was fascinated by the fact that being touched by another man could make me feel, so fantastic. It was an experience that absolutely changed my life. I had stumbled upon what was missing in my life, the magick of being touched by another man. I was on a mission, and more than 30 years latter, I still am. During those years I have become one of the UK’s most successful erotic masseurs. I have started a very quiet revolution guiding men back to the magick of masculine touch at my manhood meditation massage classes. Finding a space to do this from has always been really really difficult. After a quarter of a century searching I did not find a space, it literally found me. If I’m honest I was not expecting it to be in Manchester. Butt, life has taught me, if someone opens a door, to see it as a signpost, and to hold the door open for others. One room, 10 massage tables, 2 minutes walk from Manchester Piccadilly Station. Up to 20 Amazing Masseur, From professional to absolute beginners. Relaxed friendly space. Featuring the loving kindness – undressing ritual. So, here I am opening the door in Manchester for you. Will you see it as a “signpost”.

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This is an invitation, to do, rather than talk. My aim is to promote excellence in masculine manhood touch. And as Aristotle put it, We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. We will meet once a month in Central Manchester to practice our excellence. In the following months I will be bringing the best male massage teachers and gurus to Manchester, to share their knowledge and to inspire you with their magickal art. You will meet the most amazing men. Touch is strictly by permission. You only ever do what you want. You ALWAYS choose your massage partner, or bring your own. The classes continue in December when I return to Manchester with my tantric massage classes 4 beginners . More dates to follow. 

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To caress the world with their magic hands

Seb Cox runs a massage club
Its fair to say he likes to rub
I haven’t been for one just yet
But am I willing – hell, you bet

Other guys with a like-mind
Hone their skills so they’re refined
They practice soothing and relieving
Once you lay down, no way you’re leaving

I wonder if this thought it fair?
Can one massage through thick hair?
My chest is not a forest, true
Considering this will regular oil do?

Seb and his group they have big plans;
To caress the world with their magic hands
I hear they make men feel sublime
Curing man-stress one guy at a time

I wrote this ode in admiration
I tremble at the thought of your stimulation
And if you need a volunteer
Listen up Seb, for I am right here.

(by the wonderful Rich)


the art of male massage

Hi all, I’ve been an avid massage fan for some time now, but only this week have seriously considered taking steps to pursue the art of male massage as a potential sideline career. I haven’t done any research as of yet, but thought I’d start the discussion here as to how those who have achieved any level of success in the field started out? Are qualifications essential, and if so, where/what/how to train? (And where not to train!!) In the meantime, always up for trading, I’m nowhere near a standard to think about any of this anytime soon. (From the discussion forum, Manchester Manhood Massage Meditation)

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Hello,  I have been a successful male masseur for more than 20 years. I have no massage quailification or certificates. It has afforded me a life beyond my expectations. I absolutely love my work. Can I give you two words of advice. Do it!

P.s. The best way to do the research is to get paid for doing it. Offer something unique. Mr Cox


The Jolly Lolly

The Male Deer Exercise is an ancient Taoist exercise designed to improve male sexual health. It is believed that it can transform a man’s sexual ability, and strengthen the body’s sex organs. For best results the Male Deer Exercise should be done when you are naked and relaxed, and when you have a really firm erection, seems to work best with your “morning erection”. To be effective, it should be performed daily. It will give you great sexual energy and will improve your overall physical and mental well-being. Sit comfortably on the edge of a chair, with your cock and balls gently hanging over the edge. It is important to be in a warm environment.

Part 1

It is important to maintain a smile throughout the exercise. Heat your hands by rubbing them furiously together. Cup the right hand around the testicles, holding them gently and warming the scrotum. The thumb of the right hand should rest on top of the base of the penis shaft, right next to the abdomen. Now place your left palm just between your belly-button, and above the base of the penis, rub 81 times in a circular motion in a clockwise position. Use enough pressure so that your palm is warming the area as you make the circular movements. Then rub your hand furiously together again, and then switch hands. So this time cup your balls you’re your left hand and make the circular motions with your right hand in an anti clockwise direction. Breathe deeply throughout your experience and enjoy the warming feelings. Should you start to lose you erection at anytime gently massage your cock back to erection and continue with the exercise, but do not brake the cycle of 81.

Part 2

It is important to maintain a smile throughout the exercise. Now, rest your hands on your lap. Make your hands into fists by encircling your thumbs with your fingers. Pull your finger in tightly as this activates a number of important acupressure points. Continue to breathe deeply and then contract and lift the perineum (the muscles between your balls and your arse). It will seem as you are gently lifting your balls. Keep breathing deeply as you relax while holding the contraction for a minute, or as long as is comfortable. You only need to do this step once. Feel the energy emanate from your peneniem muscle travel around your body, tingly downward to our feet, and upwards through your spine up into your brain. If your not sure which muscle to contract think of the muscle you would use to stop pissing in the middle of a really strong piss, that’s the muscle to contract and lift.

Effects of the Male Deer Exercise:

It is believed the male deer exercise spread sexual pleasure and energy throughout the body, and helps men to experience full-body orgasms. It can also help to strengthen your erection, increase semen production and promotes prostatic health. For best results it should be performed daily. At the end of the exercise you should give your arse a good wiggle (flutter) as you smile broadly, as if you were a deer.